Thursday, November 21, 2013

Cosmic Bowling...


Friday Night Bob and his kids came down to my place...
To the "cities" to hang out for the night!

They wanted to see where...
Alex, Avin and I called home.


So we decided on bowling...
as the activity of the night.

We waited until 10pm...
So that we could cosmic bowl...
two hours of bowling, food and a few games.

There is nothing better...
Then spending time together as a family...
Seeing everyone smile, hearing everyone laugh...
and just enjoying each others company doing something active!


Such a fun activity...
along with fun there always comes a price...
Everything costs so much money these days...
and when you add 2, 3 or 5 kids into the mix, it gets expensive!

I want to do things like...
The Zoo, Nickelodeon Universe, Children's Museum...
The Movies, Bowling, Air Maxx, Twins Games, Wild Games...
Holidazzle Parade, Macy's Display, Mini Golf, Valley Fair, Paddle Boats...
The list could go on and on and on and on but the price goes up and up and up and up!


We have been trying to pick one thing to do each weekend...
That Bob has his kids with him so that we get out of the house...
This allows us to make memories and just have a good time together.

We have been lucky...
Been up to his parents place twice...
Hang out on his land and just mess around...
Air Maxx and Bowling...


It has been a blast...
Creating a bond with his children...
Building a relationship with Bob as well as them!

I am excited for the weekends to come...
When Bob will be home when I have my girls on the weekends...
and when we have our kids on the same weekends so we can do things all together.

It will be interesting...
To have all 5 kids together, at the same time, all in one place...
It's gonna be a crazy mess, chaotic, hectic, overwhelming, stressful...
But I bet its gonna make the best memories a mom could ask for!


This relationship is gonna take work...
More work then I have ever had to put into a relationship...
and that's just from the start, from the beginning its gonna be harder then any of my past.

But when I sit and think about it...
It's gonna be worth it, its gonna be fun...
It is going to be an amazing ride, one great journey...
With bumps, curves and hiccups along the way I am sure...
But that will just add character to our relationships, make it stronger...
and bring us closer together as a couple and as a family.

I love this man.
Every day looks a little better...
and every day the future looks a little brighter!

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